1. Say no and keep silent
Until I was 18, I didn't know how to reject someone and I kept explaining the reason for the refusal for a long time, in the end, I always ended up being persuaded to do that. Later, I was angry with myself.
Now, if I want to say no, I just say "no" and I stop talking. Oddly enough, usually in response, I hear: "I'm sorry, it's fine."
2. Be patient
Do not expect immediate results. Everything takes time, and the greater your goal, the more steps and time you will need.
I wish I understood this a long time ago!
3. Always attend street musicians.
During my student years, we and our friends used to play the guitar in underpasses or parks. Since then, I always give a few dollars, even to the most terrible musicians.
You never know, what led them to the street at -10 ° C.
4. Reading books.
I bet if you replace at least part of sitting aimlessly in front of a television or computer with reading useful books, you will be the most educated person among friends.
There is a surprising quote from Mark Twain: "A person who does not read good books has no advantage over a person who cannot read."
Reading is one of my important rules.
5. Physical training
Lack of physical activity destroys everyone's health.
Those who think they don't have time to exercise will have to find time for the disease, sooner or later. Your health is your achievement.
I never spend 3 days without exercising.
6. Follow your own path
Find your own path, and not what society dictates.
Life comes once, take this opportunity.
I, no more, try to like all those around me.
7. Respect for love.
Personally, for me, respect is much more important than love. If she constantly says that she loves me more than anyone in this world and that she really does, but that, she continues to insult here and there, I would rather break up with her.
Respect and love always go hand in hand. Without respect there is no true love.
Sorry, no more commitment!
8. Don't argue with a woman for more than ten minutes - apologize and forget
There were times when I didn't like to apologize if I felt I was right. Having damaged many nerves, I realized that it was much easier to apologize. "Well, you're right, I'm wrong, I'm sorry."
And peace and harmony reign.
I'd rather be happy than right!
9. Always pay for her in a restaurant, if you ever had anything with her
Very well, nothing ties us anymore, but we are not strangers yet.
Therefore, I consider it my duty to show some kind of concern and respect for them.
10. Never trust someone or rely too much
Never overestimate your value in someone's life.
The closest will move away from you as if they had never met you.
Take my words as they are!
I would like to finish this answer by saying:
Manhood is not in following certain rules. Manhood is “being a real man”. So, it doesn't matter, you are a king or a shepherd!
Be a man with a capital "M".
Until I was 18, I didn't know how to reject someone and I kept explaining the reason for the refusal for a long time, in the end, I always ended up being persuaded to do that. Later, I was angry with myself.
Now, if I want to say no, I just say "no" and I stop talking. Oddly enough, usually in response, I hear: "I'm sorry, it's fine."
 |
| Credit: Google |
2. Be patient
Do not expect immediate results. Everything takes time, and the greater your goal, the more steps and time you will need.
I wish I understood this a long time ago!
3. Always attend street musicians.
During my student years, we and our friends used to play the guitar in underpasses or parks. Since then, I always give a few dollars, even to the most terrible musicians.
You never know, what led them to the street at -10 ° C.
4. Reading books.
I bet if you replace at least part of sitting aimlessly in front of a television or computer with reading useful books, you will be the most educated person among friends.
There is a surprising quote from Mark Twain: "A person who does not read good books has no advantage over a person who cannot read."
Reading is one of my important rules.
5. Physical training
Lack of physical activity destroys everyone's health.
Those who think they don't have time to exercise will have to find time for the disease, sooner or later. Your health is your achievement.
I never spend 3 days without exercising.
6. Follow your own path
Find your own path, and not what society dictates.
Life comes once, take this opportunity.
I, no more, try to like all those around me.
7. Respect for love.
Personally, for me, respect is much more important than love. If she constantly says that she loves me more than anyone in this world and that she really does, but that, she continues to insult here and there, I would rather break up with her.
Respect and love always go hand in hand. Without respect there is no true love.
Sorry, no more commitment!
8. Don't argue with a woman for more than ten minutes - apologize and forget
There were times when I didn't like to apologize if I felt I was right. Having damaged many nerves, I realized that it was much easier to apologize. "Well, you're right, I'm wrong, I'm sorry."
And peace and harmony reign.
I'd rather be happy than right!
9. Always pay for her in a restaurant, if you ever had anything with her
Very well, nothing ties us anymore, but we are not strangers yet.
Therefore, I consider it my duty to show some kind of concern and respect for them.
10. Never trust someone or rely too much
Never overestimate your value in someone's life.
The closest will move away from you as if they had never met you.
Take my words as they are!
I would like to finish this answer by saying:
Manhood is not in following certain rules. Manhood is “being a real man”. So, it doesn't matter, you are a king or a shepherd!
Be a man with a capital "M".
Comments
Post a Comment